If there is one topic that everyone has a story to tell about, it is anchoring. Anchoring is a spectator sport so get to your harbor early and enjoy the show. After two decades sailing, I have seen all the stages of anchoring with your spouse. First you give hand signals that your spouse doesn't recognize though they make perfect sense to you. Then, when your crew mate gives you a confused look, you repeat the signal while miming the speech with your mouth in a slow O-V-E-R-L-Y D-R-A-M-A-T-I-C way. Then frustration takes over, you point wildly with so much effort that you injure your rotator cuff. I call this the angry mime phase. Finally things boil down to yelling over the sound of the motor, and then one last hand signal that everyone knows. Your evening is ruined, and you have guaranteed that you won't be invited for cocktails on any of the neighboring boats.
It's one of those things that you just suffer with when you're on a boat. The inability to communicate with the person at the helm because it's too far, they can't see you, or they can't hear you, is just a frustrating detail that we tend to live with. I have found that it really isn't necessary. My wife and I now wear Cruising Solutions My Team Talks headsets every time we pick up or drop a mooring, dock the boat, or pick up or drop our anchor. To put it in the words of one of my cruising friends, "It's like she's in my head!" There is never any confusion and you never have to raise your voice. We do find it helpful to repeat what the other person says as we do it. So if I say, "Shift into neutral." My wife repeats, "shifting into neutral."
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Once we became used to them, almost everything about the new headsets was
better. They were significantly more expensive but there were significant
differences between the two types of headsets. One thing that I really
appreciate is the ability to instantly turn off my communication with my wife,
so that I can talk to someone else on the dock and with the press of a button
we reconnect. Warning sailors, "turning off" your wife when she is mad is a bad idea! The Marriage Savers are on full time and it is possible to yell
in your wife's ear when you are calling to someone on the dock, or confuse the
person on the other end when you aren't talking to them. They are smaller,
lighter, more powerful, have less static interference, and stay on your head
better then the Marriage Savers do. Additionally they could fit on your head
inside the hood of your foul weather gear (when you may need the the most)
which the Marriage Savers do not. They are rechargeable which is far better
than 9V batteries as you do not need to keep an extra set of batteries around
in case they die. Of course they tell you when the battery is getting low too. The volume is readily controllable whereas the marriage savers
only have a high and low setting. They are totally private which is important
if you don't like interruptions from other boaters. I particularly like the indicator lights. I have accidentally left my Marriage Savers on thus killing the battery only to find them dead when I need them the most.
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I have fount that the boom microphone seems a little short. It fits my wife but, it only reaches the corner of my mouth so it's very important to have the microphone facing toward your mouth and curved so that is right in front of the corner of your mouth otherwise it may be hard for your companion to hear you. Given time, I have learned to appreciate the compact nature of the headsets. The Marriage Savers were great, but it is possible for people to not even notice that you are wearing the My Team Talks headsets as they are much smaller and less obtrusive. You don't look like you're directing traffic on the deck of a aircraft carrier (though that is far preferable to not communicating.)
I occasionally wear glasses and the My Team Talks headset mounts over and behind your ears. They are much more stable than the Marriage Savers and will remain on your head in all positions, but they do tend to interfere a little with my wireframe glasses. The foam ear covers of the Marriage Savers worked a little better for this but the
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The My Team Talks headsets came without a charging transformer. You get a USB cord, and they will plug into any Apple or Android USB charger that excepts USB cords but I expected to receive a wall outlet inverter with the set. I had no trouble finding extra transformers around the house from old cell phones but that may be an issue with other people. I purchased a couple of inexpensive converters that fit into 12 V lighter sockets on the boat that have USB ports in them for $5.99 each.
Because of the complexity of the Bluetooth headset, it took me longer to learn how to use them. The Marriage Savers are simply "on and off" where as the Bluetooth headsets are capable of many different functions and therefore you need to spend some time with the manual and learn how to turn them on and off and connect to the other person. Not a big deal, but if you are a "manual skipper" like I am, you will find yourself going back to read the directions. I couldn't begin to discuss all the other things these do like connect to your cell phone, or let you listen to music wirelessly. That is beyond the scope of the ariticle.
The last issue is a minor one. I really liked the storage bag that the Marriage Savers came in. The My Team Talks headsets do not come in a storage bag, they only come in a cardboard box. So you need to find a place to store them which can be a hassle on a boat. I sold my old Marriage Savers inexpensively to a friend but kept the storage bag for the new headsets.
As always I try to be honest when writing these evaluations. I list the good the bad and I can say that these are a good product and that I'm glad I have them. Though the price seemed expensive, now that I have used them, they are worth it. I beleive that they will be one of those things I can't imagine living without like a windlass or self tailing winches. Currently we spend about 2 months living aboard each year, but my wife and I intend to live on our boat year round and the quality of these headsets fits our needs better than the Marriage Savers did. Full disclosure, I received a small discount when purchasing the "My Team Talks" given that I would try them out and evaluate them. I have used them for a few weeks and have put my impressions in this blog post.
Captain Doug Purdy
This is a most helpful review. Thanks for posting.
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